Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
I've noticed that the longer I go without fapping, the more angry and sh!t I become. Is this just me? Am I just a sexually frustrated cvnt with no outlet?
Just wondering.
Just wondering.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
just give it time man.. things will get better.. try fapping without the porn..
sure it's boring. but you don't get the brain fog after you do it
sure it's boring. but you don't get the brain fog after you do it
Smell The Glove
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Try meditating.
Just sit quietly and focus on your breathing for 20 minutes.
Just sit quietly and focus on your breathing for 20 minutes.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Try having seexxxxx!
It does wonders for removing that frustration. Trust me.
It does wonders for removing that frustration. Trust me.
Smell The Glove
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That too.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Redempti0n
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Ofcourse you become angry and feel like sh!t.
That's a normal phase in giving up any addiction.
That's a normal phase in giving up any addiction.
Fatal Jay
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Sneevox said:
You will get angry faster, because your T levels are sky rocketing. That's why you need to channel your anger into working out, or using it for hobbies or talents. All that built in energy should be used to your advantage.
Also what redemption said is so true.
HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
I've started no fap... I've been driving like a maniac and flipping everyone off. It sucks, but now when I get pissy, I hit the gym and lift weights to the point of exhaustion. Also, I've started spinning plates again. Find a way to channel your rage into something productive. I personally think fapping is evil. Everytime you fap, the baby Jesus cries.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Why does whether or not you watch porn while doing it affect your sharpness/alertness (at least I assume that's what you meant by "brain fog")?Packers2010 said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
Heh, maybe it has nothing to do with fapping. I find that my confidence is down when I fap, though.
Good suggestion, by the way, Smell The Glove.
I meditate daily anyways.
Good suggestion, by the way, Smell The Glove.
I meditate daily anyways.