Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
I've noticed that the longer I go without fapping, the more angry and sh!t I become. Is this just me? Am I just a sexually frustrated cvnt with no outlet?
Just wondering.
Just wondering.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
just give it time man.. things will get better.. try fapping without the porn..
sure it's boring. but you don't get the brain fog after you do it
sure it's boring. but you don't get the brain fog after you do it
Smell The Glove
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Try meditating.
Just sit quietly and focus on your breathing for 20 minutes.
Just sit quietly and focus on your breathing for 20 minutes.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Try having seexxxxx!
It does wonders for removing that frustration. Trust me.
It does wonders for removing that frustration. Trust me.
Smell The Glove
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That too.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Redempti0n
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Ofcourse you become angry and feel like sh!t.
That's a normal phase in giving up any addiction.
That's a normal phase in giving up any addiction.
Fatal Jay
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Sneevox said:
You will get angry faster, because your T levels are sky rocketing. That's why you need to channel your anger into working out, or using it for hobbies or talents. All that built in energy should be used to your advantage.
Also what redemption said is so true.
HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
I've started no fap... I've been driving like a maniac and flipping everyone off. It sucks, but now when I get pissy, I hit the gym and lift weights to the point of exhaustion. Also, I've started spinning plates again. Find a way to channel your rage into something productive. I personally think fapping is evil. Everytime you fap, the baby Jesus cries.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Why does whether or not you watch porn while doing it affect your sharpness/alertness (at least I assume that's what you meant by "brain fog")?Packers2010 said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
Heh, maybe it has nothing to do with fapping. I find that my confidence is down when I fap, though.
Good suggestion, by the way, Smell The Glove.
I meditate daily anyways.
Good suggestion, by the way, Smell The Glove.
I meditate daily anyways.