Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
I've noticed that the longer I go without fapping, the more angry and sh!t I become. Is this just me? Am I just a sexually frustrated cvnt with no outlet?
Just wondering.
Just wondering.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
just give it time man.. things will get better.. try fapping without the porn..
sure it's boring. but you don't get the brain fog after you do it
sure it's boring. but you don't get the brain fog after you do it
Smell The Glove
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Try meditating.
Just sit quietly and focus on your breathing for 20 minutes.
Just sit quietly and focus on your breathing for 20 minutes.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Try having seexxxxx!
It does wonders for removing that frustration. Trust me.
It does wonders for removing that frustration. Trust me.
Smell The Glove
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That too.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Redempti0n
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Ofcourse you become angry and feel like sh!t.
That's a normal phase in giving up any addiction.
That's a normal phase in giving up any addiction.
Fatal Jay
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Sneevox said:
You will get angry faster, because your T levels are sky rocketing. That's why you need to channel your anger into working out, or using it for hobbies or talents. All that built in energy should be used to your advantage.
Also what redemption said is so true.
HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
I've started no fap... I've been driving like a maniac and flipping everyone off. It sucks, but now when I get pissy, I hit the gym and lift weights to the point of exhaustion. Also, I've started spinning plates again. Find a way to channel your rage into something productive. I personally think fapping is evil. Everytime you fap, the baby Jesus cries.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Why does whether or not you watch porn while doing it affect your sharpness/alertness (at least I assume that's what you meant by "brain fog")?Packers2010 said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
Heh, maybe it has nothing to do with fapping. I find that my confidence is down when I fap, though.
Good suggestion, by the way, Smell The Glove.
I meditate daily anyways.
Good suggestion, by the way, Smell The Glove.
I meditate daily anyways.