"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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OMG she was LOOKING at ME

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LMFAO, sorry guys, i just love how some of these newbies post topics about how a girl was lookin at them, lol GOD DAMN, it aint lik these girls are britney spearsssss they just girlsssss
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lol so... u actually took sime of your time to do a thread like this.... hmmmm u most be bored...
 

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Originally posted by bfl
lol so... u actually took sime of your time to do a thread like this.... hmmmm u most be bored...
and u answered it :D, hang on, oh no, so did I, doh :rolleyes:
 

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^^ lol i knew that was coming
 

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lmaooo, yea i am, i got an ankle injury and i was just reading some of this stuff. ITS FUNNYY
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is the official "too drunk to know what I'm doing" post of this weekend.
 

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OMG this HB99 looked at ME in the LEFT eye for 1.2324sec and blink TWICE!

DO I WALK OVER THERE!?!?!11

THX GUYZ!!!!
 

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Originally posted by Evil-Rom
OMG this HB99 looked at ME in the LEFT eye for 1.2324sec and blink TWICE!

DO I WALK OVER THERE!?!?!11

THX GUYZ!!!!
This is a good sign. Two blinks means she wants you to do a peacock dance up on the bar. Don't be afraid. Ignore what other people think. Just do it!

Go get em tiger!
 

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this hb10 said hi to me
what should i say to her?????? does that mean she likes me? i'm so confused what should i do!!!??? i need help reply asap plz!!! :D :p

hehe
 

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Can I buy you a drink or will you just take money.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i have a boner whenever i talk to this girl at school. does this mean i like her?
 
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What is a boner? You carry bones arond???:confused:
 

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O_O ?

Dr. P..surely you know that a bo..

Nevermind. And yes, he does carry bones around. In his pants. Right next to his dick. It's just for decoration! That's all!
 

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a hard on.
 

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I've found out that there are basically two kinds of eye contact

1) The Punk-out
2) The attraction stare

If you're ever been punked out of eye contact by a girl before, you'd probably swear to yourself that it's not going to happen again.

So now I maintain an unrelenting gaze. They're not going to punk ME out! They should fear me!

Then when I see a girl looking at me and she's NOT trying to punk me out my face becomes like it hit a brick wall. Haha.

I must present a friendlier stare. :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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