"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OMG she was LOOKING at ME

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LMFAO, sorry guys, i just love how some of these newbies post topics about how a girl was lookin at them, lol GOD DAMN, it aint lik these girls are britney spearsssss they just girlsssss
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bfl

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lol so... u actually took sime of your time to do a thread like this.... hmmmm u most be bored...
 

CLOONEY

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Originally posted by bfl
lol so... u actually took sime of your time to do a thread like this.... hmmmm u most be bored...
and u answered it :D, hang on, oh no, so did I, doh :rolleyes:
 

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^^ lol i knew that was coming
 

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lmaooo, yea i am, i got an ankle injury and i was just reading some of this stuff. ITS FUNNYY
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is the official "too drunk to know what I'm doing" post of this weekend.
 

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OMG this HB99 looked at ME in the LEFT eye for 1.2324sec and blink TWICE!

DO I WALK OVER THERE!?!?!11

THX GUYZ!!!!
 

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Originally posted by Evil-Rom
OMG this HB99 looked at ME in the LEFT eye for 1.2324sec and blink TWICE!

DO I WALK OVER THERE!?!?!11

THX GUYZ!!!!
This is a good sign. Two blinks means she wants you to do a peacock dance up on the bar. Don't be afraid. Ignore what other people think. Just do it!

Go get em tiger!
 

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this hb10 said hi to me
what should i say to her?????? does that mean she likes me? i'm so confused what should i do!!!??? i need help reply asap plz!!! :D :p

hehe
 

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Can I buy you a drink or will you just take money.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tails

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i have a boner whenever i talk to this girl at school. does this mean i like her?
 
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What is a boner? You carry bones arond???:confused:
 

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O_O ?

Dr. P..surely you know that a bo..

Nevermind. And yes, he does carry bones around. In his pants. Right next to his dick. It's just for decoration! That's all!
 

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a hard on.
 

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I've found out that there are basically two kinds of eye contact

1) The Punk-out
2) The attraction stare

If you're ever been punked out of eye contact by a girl before, you'd probably swear to yourself that it's not going to happen again.

So now I maintain an unrelenting gaze. They're not going to punk ME out! They should fear me!

Then when I see a girl looking at me and she's NOT trying to punk me out my face becomes like it hit a brick wall. Haha.

I must present a friendlier stare. :p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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