"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OMG! I've just realized the answer to everyone who's ever been nervous to approach!!!

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Have you ever been afraid to approach a beatiful woman? Are you ever nervous about getting rejected? Well, if you answered "yes" to both or either these questions, continue reading!!

This idea hit me like a ton of bricks today when I was shopping for an extra pair of versache shades. Whenever you feel fear to approach a women, just put on some shades! See, when you mask your eyes, you get a calm and secure feeling. This helps when building your confidence of approaching girls, and it can also help even if you get rejected beacuse the girl cannot see your eyes! Just use this method next time you get nervous, and start approaching more women! Do this until you're confident enough to approach them without the glasses!

:flowers: :up: :cheer: :cheer::box: :woo: :wave: :rock: :yes: :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah, but sunglasses could also convey a subtle message that you cant be trusted. When first approaching, a girl's number one question is are you a maniac who will potentially assault her or can she trust you, before she can feel attraction, etc... - and I dont think sunglasses help to that assurance, but if it works, go for it.
 

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and you couldnt do it inside b/c u look dumb and so it cuts it down by over 1/2
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I like to dress up as a squid when approaching women.

If i get rejected i simple attribute it to the fact i'm dressed up as a slimy tentacled sea creature. It really helps my confidence knowing its the squid shes rejecting and not me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rocker said:
I find carrying a gun helps.
best response I've heard all year.

And did you mean versace or vershace? :cool:
 

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NeonBase said:
I find wearing a turban also helps...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

AND:trouble: :trouble: your stupid idea.

Only people with low confidence have to hide behind props. Find your balls and gain some confidence through action.

Just another fking crutch.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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this thread shows how many sad lowlife losers post on sosuave and waste space - ****in morons
 

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Wait a minute skip, didn't you post about how you should have the personality of a bum to pick up women? I'd rather wear sunglasses at night than chase someone down the block to get a nickle or two.
 

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Skip are you becoming disenchanted with ss?
 

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skip, it might be time fore a new nick name.....that would be what, 6 or 7 by now???
 

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The sun never goes down in Cool-Town..... :rolleyes:

Isn't it about time some guys stopped leaning on gimmicks and tricks to overcoming their anxieties, and started getting to the root of the problem?

Here's an idea; Pretend you ARE wearing shades but leave them off.... the only difference is that which you make up in your own head. You should be the same with them on or off, and if you can't do that then you need to overcome it by going through the discomfort until it no longer bothers you. That's the only way to REALLY grow. Stop using a crutch.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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