"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OMG! I've just realized the answer to everyone who's ever been nervous to approach!!!

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Have you ever been afraid to approach a beatiful woman? Are you ever nervous about getting rejected? Well, if you answered "yes" to both or either these questions, continue reading!!

This idea hit me like a ton of bricks today when I was shopping for an extra pair of versache shades. Whenever you feel fear to approach a women, just put on some shades! See, when you mask your eyes, you get a calm and secure feeling. This helps when building your confidence of approaching girls, and it can also help even if you get rejected beacuse the girl cannot see your eyes! Just use this method next time you get nervous, and start approaching more women! Do this until you're confident enough to approach them without the glasses!

:flowers: :up: :cheer: :cheer::box: :woo: :wave: :rock: :yes: :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, but sunglasses could also convey a subtle message that you cant be trusted. When first approaching, a girl's number one question is are you a maniac who will potentially assault her or can she trust you, before she can feel attraction, etc... - and I dont think sunglasses help to that assurance, but if it works, go for it.
 

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and you couldnt do it inside b/c u look dumb and so it cuts it down by over 1/2
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I like to dress up as a squid when approaching women.

If i get rejected i simple attribute it to the fact i'm dressed up as a slimy tentacled sea creature. It really helps my confidence knowing its the squid shes rejecting and not me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rocker said:
I find carrying a gun helps.
best response I've heard all year.

And did you mean versace or vershace? :cool:
 

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NeonBase said:
I find wearing a turban also helps...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

AND:trouble: :trouble: your stupid idea.

Only people with low confidence have to hide behind props. Find your balls and gain some confidence through action.

Just another fking crutch.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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this thread shows how many sad lowlife losers post on sosuave and waste space - ****in morons
 

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Wait a minute skip, didn't you post about how you should have the personality of a bum to pick up women? I'd rather wear sunglasses at night than chase someone down the block to get a nickle or two.
 

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Skip are you becoming disenchanted with ss?
 

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skip, it might be time fore a new nick name.....that would be what, 6 or 7 by now???
 

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The sun never goes down in Cool-Town..... :rolleyes:

Isn't it about time some guys stopped leaning on gimmicks and tricks to overcoming their anxieties, and started getting to the root of the problem?

Here's an idea; Pretend you ARE wearing shades but leave them off.... the only difference is that which you make up in your own head. You should be the same with them on or off, and if you can't do that then you need to overcome it by going through the discomfort until it no longer bothers you. That's the only way to REALLY grow. Stop using a crutch.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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