"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OMG! I've just realized the answer to everyone who's ever been nervous to approach!!!

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Have you ever been afraid to approach a beatiful woman? Are you ever nervous about getting rejected? Well, if you answered "yes" to both or either these questions, continue reading!!

This idea hit me like a ton of bricks today when I was shopping for an extra pair of versache shades. Whenever you feel fear to approach a women, just put on some shades! See, when you mask your eyes, you get a calm and secure feeling. This helps when building your confidence of approaching girls, and it can also help even if you get rejected beacuse the girl cannot see your eyes! Just use this method next time you get nervous, and start approaching more women! Do this until you're confident enough to approach them without the glasses!

:flowers: :up: :cheer: :cheer::box: :woo: :wave: :rock: :yes: :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah, but sunglasses could also convey a subtle message that you cant be trusted. When first approaching, a girl's number one question is are you a maniac who will potentially assault her or can she trust you, before she can feel attraction, etc... - and I dont think sunglasses help to that assurance, but if it works, go for it.
 

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and you couldnt do it inside b/c u look dumb and so it cuts it down by over 1/2
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I like to dress up as a squid when approaching women.

If i get rejected i simple attribute it to the fact i'm dressed up as a slimy tentacled sea creature. It really helps my confidence knowing its the squid shes rejecting and not me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Rocker said:
I find carrying a gun helps.
best response I've heard all year.

And did you mean versace or vershace? :cool:
 

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NeonBase said:
I find wearing a turban also helps...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

AND:trouble: :trouble: your stupid idea.

Only people with low confidence have to hide behind props. Find your balls and gain some confidence through action.

Just another fking crutch.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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this thread shows how many sad lowlife losers post on sosuave and waste space - ****in morons
 

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Wait a minute skip, didn't you post about how you should have the personality of a bum to pick up women? I'd rather wear sunglasses at night than chase someone down the block to get a nickle or two.
 

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Skip are you becoming disenchanted with ss?
 

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skip, it might be time fore a new nick name.....that would be what, 6 or 7 by now???
 

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The sun never goes down in Cool-Town..... :rolleyes:

Isn't it about time some guys stopped leaning on gimmicks and tricks to overcoming their anxieties, and started getting to the root of the problem?

Here's an idea; Pretend you ARE wearing shades but leave them off.... the only difference is that which you make up in your own head. You should be the same with them on or off, and if you can't do that then you need to overcome it by going through the discomfort until it no longer bothers you. That's the only way to REALLY grow. Stop using a crutch.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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