"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OMG Another FREE Lecture in NYC - You gotta be there!

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Hey Guys,

Im back in NY doing a bootcamp as always I try to give back to the community as much as I can. Thus, I will be giving another FREE Lecture in NYC on Thursday the Oct. 22nd at 8pm.

This is your chance to get some training especially if you couldnt make it to the last one I gave. I am sure you heard all the great feedback that was posted here by the guys who did attended.

Anyway you MUST RSVP for this FREE Lecture. I would recommend for you to RSVP ASAP as seats are extremely limited, and its a first come first serve basis so dont delay!

You can RSVP by texting or emailing me your name, email address, and phone number. This is a FREE event which means NO CHARGE. =)

My telephone number is: 954-274-6996
My E-mail is: [email protected]

Hope to see you there!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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awesome man, reckon you could pay for a return ticket from london to nyc for us? no need for accomodation ill just walk around for the night
 
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How come you guys never come out to the midwest? There tons of "pua's" and community guys in Minneapolis. I know you guys go to Chicago as well, but you really missing out on business over here man

just a thought. this is an untapped market think Alaska(tons of oil and shiit):D

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Solomon said:
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How come you guys never come out to the midwest? There tons of "pua's" and community guys in Minneapolis. I know you guys go to Chicago as well, but you really missing out on business over here man

just a thought. this is an untapped market think Alaska(tons of oil and shiit):D

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yeah I feel you bud,

Well the truth is we offer a Private LEI Bootcamp. Which means if you get 3 or more people together ANYWHERE in the USA I will personally fly down and train you guys. So if you are in a place where you do not feel like we offer currently get a few of your friends, communicate with me directly and we can set it up.

I always try to help anyone who is willing to take the time to help themselves.

Talk soon,


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Seating is reaching maximum capacity for NY. If you would like to attend the FREE LECTURE please email me asap to RSVP. [email protected]
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Only 2 seats left RSVP ASAP!
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Aaah, the good old scarcity principle. Marketing 101. There are far more than 2 seats left.
 
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Répondez s'il vous plaît

Since it would be rude to not reply to an RSVP, then no.
 
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post a thread when you come give a free lecture in texas sir :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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for sure i will try to post all the free upcoming lectures,

appreciate all the support guys,

talk soon,
 
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