"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OMG Another FREE Lecture in NYC - You gotta be there!

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Hey Guys,

Im back in NY doing a bootcamp as always I try to give back to the community as much as I can. Thus, I will be giving another FREE Lecture in NYC on Thursday the Oct. 22nd at 8pm.

This is your chance to get some training especially if you couldnt make it to the last one I gave. I am sure you heard all the great feedback that was posted here by the guys who did attended.

Anyway you MUST RSVP for this FREE Lecture. I would recommend for you to RSVP ASAP as seats are extremely limited, and its a first come first serve basis so dont delay!

You can RSVP by texting or emailing me your name, email address, and phone number. This is a FREE event which means NO CHARGE. =)

My telephone number is: 954-274-6996
My E-mail is: [email protected]

Hope to see you there!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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awesome man, reckon you could pay for a return ticket from london to nyc for us? no need for accomodation ill just walk around for the night
 

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Speer

How come you guys never come out to the midwest? There tons of "pua's" and community guys in Minneapolis. I know you guys go to Chicago as well, but you really missing out on business over here man

just a thought. this is an untapped market think Alaska(tons of oil and shiit):D

Solo
 

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Solomon said:
Speer

How come you guys never come out to the midwest? There tons of "pua's" and community guys in Minneapolis. I know you guys go to Chicago as well, but you really missing out on business over here man

just a thought. this is an untapped market think Alaska(tons of oil and shiit):D

Solo
yeah I feel you bud,

Well the truth is we offer a Private LEI Bootcamp. Which means if you get 3 or more people together ANYWHERE in the USA I will personally fly down and train you guys. So if you are in a place where you do not feel like we offer currently get a few of your friends, communicate with me directly and we can set it up.

I always try to help anyone who is willing to take the time to help themselves.

Talk soon,


PS
Seating is reaching maximum capacity for NY. If you would like to attend the FREE LECTURE please email me asap to RSVP. [email protected]
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Alle_Gory

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Speer Method said:
Only 2 seats left RSVP ASAP!
Aaah, the good old scarcity principle. Marketing 101. There are far more than 2 seats left.
 

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Répondez s'il vous plaît

Since it would be rude to not reply to an RSVP, then no.
 

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post a thread when you come give a free lecture in texas sir :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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for sure i will try to post all the free upcoming lectures,

appreciate all the support guys,

talk soon,
 
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