"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OMG Another FREE Lecture in NYC - You gotta be there!

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Hey Guys,

Im back in NY doing a bootcamp as always I try to give back to the community as much as I can. Thus, I will be giving another FREE Lecture in NYC on Thursday the Oct. 22nd at 8pm.

This is your chance to get some training especially if you couldnt make it to the last one I gave. I am sure you heard all the great feedback that was posted here by the guys who did attended.

Anyway you MUST RSVP for this FREE Lecture. I would recommend for you to RSVP ASAP as seats are extremely limited, and its a first come first serve basis so dont delay!

You can RSVP by texting or emailing me your name, email address, and phone number. This is a FREE event which means NO CHARGE. =)

My telephone number is: 954-274-6996
My E-mail is: [email protected]

Hope to see you there!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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awesome man, reckon you could pay for a return ticket from london to nyc for us? no need for accomodation ill just walk around for the night
 

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How come you guys never come out to the midwest? There tons of "pua's" and community guys in Minneapolis. I know you guys go to Chicago as well, but you really missing out on business over here man

just a thought. this is an untapped market think Alaska(tons of oil and shiit):D

Solo
 

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Solomon said:
Speer

How come you guys never come out to the midwest? There tons of "pua's" and community guys in Minneapolis. I know you guys go to Chicago as well, but you really missing out on business over here man

just a thought. this is an untapped market think Alaska(tons of oil and shiit):D

Solo
yeah I feel you bud,

Well the truth is we offer a Private LEI Bootcamp. Which means if you get 3 or more people together ANYWHERE in the USA I will personally fly down and train you guys. So if you are in a place where you do not feel like we offer currently get a few of your friends, communicate with me directly and we can set it up.

I always try to help anyone who is willing to take the time to help themselves.

Talk soon,


PS
Seating is reaching maximum capacity for NY. If you would like to attend the FREE LECTURE please email me asap to RSVP. [email protected]
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alle_Gory

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Only 2 seats left RSVP ASAP!
Aaah, the good old scarcity principle. Marketing 101. There are far more than 2 seats left.
 

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Répondez s'il vous plaît

Since it would be rude to not reply to an RSVP, then no.
 

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post a thread when you come give a free lecture in texas sir :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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for sure i will try to post all the free upcoming lectures,

appreciate all the support guys,

talk soon,
 
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