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I do have an electric scooter as it goes.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Depends on how much of a big deal she’s making me never being married out to be. It comes from mostly older women, not younger anyways. Older women don’t get to dictate the terms when they don’t have a good hand to play.would you actually say this?/ what kind of reaction are you expecting?
I’d have her arrested for assault too.Do you want her to knee you in the nuts, spit in your face, AND slap you?
respect. much appreciated Man!@JAGH888 as you can see, you will get different perspectives when seeking perspective here. Some will feel right, some won't. So keep this in mind when navigating through SS: Use the shopping cart method as some advice can be toxic from time to time.
Good luck with dating and let us know if you need more perspective on this or other subjects.
We're here for you and walking alongside you brother!
Modern Man Advice
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hank Moody is not one of them.Of course you would.
You know, there used to be real Alphas on this forum.
There are only 8 posters on this forum that I would ever seek advice from.
If someone gives you advice to stand there and be assaulted by anyone, even a woman, then they’re a dumb ass.Of course you would.
You know, there used to be real Alphas on this forum.
There are only 8 posters on this forum that I would ever seek advice from.
Oh so now it's okay with older females...Females tradionally like older dudes, however, this seems to be a changing. My gf's friend is dating a dude who is 3 years younger. As long as you guys are having a good time, no harm in playing the field with a few years older females.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
For fun and practice, yea, it's okay. For an LTR or anything more serious, there can be complications. He's talking about a 28 year old, not 48.Oh so now it's okay with older females...
What r u teaching these young ones now Ricky boy?
Leather jacket = #1 sign of wannabe alphaIf someone gives you advice to stand there and be assaulted by anyone, even a woman, then they’re a dumb ass.
Says the guy who doesn't believe game exists. I believe Hank's avatar is a picture of Fox Mulder from the X-Files. I must be a wannabe, I own several myself including a Bomber Jacket with an AREA 51 patch.Leather jacket = #1 sign of wannabe alpha
Ok so you're bragging about being a wannabe?Says the guy who doesn't believe game exists. I believe Hank's avatar is a picture of Fox Mulder from the X-Files. I must be a wannabe, I own several myself including a Bomber Jacket with an AREA 51 patch.![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lmfao. Now that's some funny shiete.Ha ha ha...I just found interactions with giggly teens draining. I did date the occasional young chick but would get fed up quickly. Most were still learning the ropes on pretty much everything and I didnt have patience to be teaching them to suck d!ck and bend over properly
Trying to condescend to people. Sign #2.You better ask somebody, son.
There are so many contradictions here on SS....on the flip side, older women (35+) are much more likely to have been raised in a more traditional household. This is assuming that they didn't go thru a slut phase. But this really shouldn't be dating territory for anyone under 40
And NEVER date a single mother outside of the context of fvckbuddies
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.