"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So I went to eat this afternoon with my buddy to this mexican resturaunt called Don Juans
No im not kidding its real. Anyways the place is nice and our waitress is cute.
I get to talkin to her and find out shes 30 im 20 . She also has a kid back home in mexico and she is trying to go back to be with her family. Her english is off and shes been in the states for 5yrs. (my listening is getting much better).

Anyways before we leave I get her number and say id like to hangout sometime.
Im a bit nervous with the age differnce never took an older lady out. Would I just treat it like anyother date?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Absolutely Larry. Just take her out.

Piece of advice though. Be very careful in possibly becoming emotionally involved with a single mommy.
 
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no treat her like you're both 13 and in middle school. Have her do fun outrageous teenage stuff. Older women love to feel young and like a little girl again. Actually all girls do but older women appreciate it more.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Acq said:
She is mexican ffs, they are easier
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FYI, withoug turning it into a race issue, I will say, I am Mexican, and can tell you from first hand experience, everything being equal, white girls are the easiest lays for me, period. I don't know how it is for white guys, or other minorities, as they might offer more resistance than Mexican girls do to you, but they all love their brown meat, latin lover. :yes:

To OP. You can hit her up, but you must establish the dynamics very early. Due to the the age difference, you need to come across as a sexual threat, even if she shuts you down. That is better than her seeing you as a little puppy dog who's just her little asexual friend.

The 13 year old frame might he useful, IF she's not already thinking of you, literally, as a little 13 year old, and not joking/playing.
 
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