“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So I went to eat this afternoon with my buddy to this mexican resturaunt called Don Juans
No im not kidding its real. Anyways the place is nice and our waitress is cute.
I get to talkin to her and find out shes 30 im 20 . She also has a kid back home in mexico and she is trying to go back to be with her family. Her english is off and shes been in the states for 5yrs. (my listening is getting much better).

Anyways before we leave I get her number and say id like to hangout sometime.
Im a bit nervous with the age differnce never took an older lady out. Would I just treat it like anyother date?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Absolutely Larry. Just take her out.

Piece of advice though. Be very careful in possibly becoming emotionally involved with a single mommy.
 
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no treat her like you're both 13 and in middle school. Have her do fun outrageous teenage stuff. Older women love to feel young and like a little girl again. Actually all girls do but older women appreciate it more.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Acq said:
She is mexican ffs, they are easier
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FYI, withoug turning it into a race issue, I will say, I am Mexican, and can tell you from first hand experience, everything being equal, white girls are the easiest lays for me, period. I don't know how it is for white guys, or other minorities, as they might offer more resistance than Mexican girls do to you, but they all love their brown meat, latin lover. :yes:

To OP. You can hit her up, but you must establish the dynamics very early. Due to the the age difference, you need to come across as a sexual threat, even if she shuts you down. That is better than her seeing you as a little puppy dog who's just her little asexual friend.

The 13 year old frame might he useful, IF she's not already thinking of you, literally, as a little 13 year old, and not joking/playing.
 
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