Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So I went to eat this afternoon with my buddy to this mexican resturaunt called Don Juans
No im not kidding its real. Anyways the place is nice and our waitress is cute.
I get to talkin to her and find out shes 30 im 20 . She also has a kid back home in mexico and she is trying to go back to be with her family. Her english is off and shes been in the states for 5yrs. (my listening is getting much better).

Anyways before we leave I get her number and say id like to hangout sometime.
Im a bit nervous with the age differnce never took an older lady out. Would I just treat it like anyother date?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Absolutely Larry. Just take her out.

Piece of advice though. Be very careful in possibly becoming emotionally involved with a single mommy.
 
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no treat her like you're both 13 and in middle school. Have her do fun outrageous teenage stuff. Older women love to feel young and like a little girl again. Actually all girls do but older women appreciate it more.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Acq said:
She is mexican ffs, they are easier
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FYI, withoug turning it into a race issue, I will say, I am Mexican, and can tell you from first hand experience, everything being equal, white girls are the easiest lays for me, period. I don't know how it is for white guys, or other minorities, as they might offer more resistance than Mexican girls do to you, but they all love their brown meat, latin lover. :yes:

To OP. You can hit her up, but you must establish the dynamics very early. Due to the the age difference, you need to come across as a sexual threat, even if she shuts you down. That is better than her seeing you as a little puppy dog who's just her little asexual friend.

The 13 year old frame might he useful, IF she's not already thinking of you, literally, as a little 13 year old, and not joking/playing.
 
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