“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DjLarrySmooth

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So I went to eat this afternoon with my buddy to this mexican resturaunt called Don Juans
No im not kidding its real. Anyways the place is nice and our waitress is cute.
I get to talkin to her and find out shes 30 im 20 . She also has a kid back home in mexico and she is trying to go back to be with her family. Her english is off and shes been in the states for 5yrs. (my listening is getting much better).

Anyways before we leave I get her number and say id like to hangout sometime.
Im a bit nervous with the age differnce never took an older lady out. Would I just treat it like anyother date?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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5string

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Absolutely Larry. Just take her out.

Piece of advice though. Be very careful in possibly becoming emotionally involved with a single mommy.
 

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no treat her like you're both 13 and in middle school. Have her do fun outrageous teenage stuff. Older women love to feel young and like a little girl again. Actually all girls do but older women appreciate it more.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gangster Of Love

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Acq said:
She is mexican ffs, they are easier

FYI, withoug turning it into a race issue, I will say, I am Mexican, and can tell you from first hand experience, everything being equal, white girls are the easiest lays for me, period. I don't know how it is for white guys, or other minorities, as they might offer more resistance than Mexican girls do to you, but they all love their brown meat, latin lover. :yes:

To OP. You can hit her up, but you must establish the dynamics very early. Due to the the age difference, you need to come across as a sexual threat, even if she shuts you down. That is better than her seeing you as a little puppy dog who's just her little asexual friend.

The 13 year old frame might he useful, IF she's not already thinking of you, literally, as a little 13 year old, and not joking/playing.
 
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