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Don Juan
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I just want to count. I've recently been wondering if I would ever want to settle down so I want to know how many are on the same boat.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Older men that are single, please raise your hands
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dabrant29
Don Juan
dude i am 21 and i can get girls to hang out laugh , come over flirt i just get scared to go all out. Is that like Normal i mean part of it is i want an amazing girl who maybe has gone through a similar time.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AreYouSingleFemale
Don Juan
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yeah, like > 30.
Luke Skywalker
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Well everyone on here knows I'm single, probably closer to a priest type of single than a player type of single since religion plays a big factor against my averision to sex - I've lived without a relationship or a woman in my life long enough to know I just dont need one and it seems when I did have a relationship I preferred to watch Doctor Who on youtube then spend much time on the phone with her, guess I'm just not that much into girls and am either involuntary/voluntary celibate or just do not care.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Define "single..." 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nismo-4
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I'm in the same boat you are.Dabrant29 said:
I DON'T try to go all out with a HB 7+ cuz i know I'll get rejected and kill all the attraction faster than a donut in front of a cop.
As for hanging out, I get to that phase and I apparently can't make anything blossom beyond the friends zone. I rely on pure luck for those matters i.e. guessing the next step/move. I be hoping something happens! (usually 2 in 10 times I succeed) As stated above, maving a move will only kill...ME! Plus all attraction!
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