"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Older men that are single, please raise your hands

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I just want to count. I've recently been wondering if I would ever want to settle down so I want to know how many are on the same boat.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm 51.
 

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Im single as in not married or in a LTR . 30 yrs old, not old but older than a few on this board.
 

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dude i am 21 and i can get girls to hang out laugh , come over flirt i just get scared to go all out. Is that like Normal i mean part of it is i want an amazing girl who maybe has gone through a similar time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well everyone on here knows I'm single, probably closer to a priest type of single than a player type of single since religion plays a big factor against my averision to sex - I've lived without a relationship or a woman in my life long enough to know I just dont need one and it seems when I did have a relationship I preferred to watch Doctor Who on youtube then spend much time on the phone with her, guess I'm just not that much into girls and am either involuntary/voluntary celibate or just do not care.
 

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I'm "old." 43. Married/divorced twice. I think I'm cured now, though.
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Define "single..." :whistle:
 

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Pretty much almost all the men ( and women) here are single. To get this number down, you may want to know "The number of married individuals".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DonJuan11

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AreYouSingleFemale said:
I just want to count. I've recently been wondering if I would ever want to settle down so I want to know how many are on the same boat.
How old are you?
 

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Dabrant29 said:
dude i am 21 and i can get girls to hang out laugh , come over flirt i just get scared to go all out. Is that like Normal i mean part of it is i want an amazing girl who maybe has gone through a similar time.
I'm in the same boat you are.

I DON'T try to go all out with a HB 7+ cuz i know I'll get rejected and kill all the attraction faster than a donut in front of a cop.

As for hanging out, I get to that phase and I apparently can't make anything blossom beyond the friends zone. I rely on pure luck for those matters i.e. guessing the next step/move. I be hoping something happens! (usually 2 in 10 times I succeed) As stated above, maving a move will only kill...ME! Plus all attraction!
 
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