AreYouSingleFemale
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I just want to count. I've recently been wondering if I would ever want to settle down so I want to know how many are on the same boat.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Older men that are single, please raise your hands
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dabrant29
Don Juan
dude i am 21 and i can get girls to hang out laugh , come over flirt i just get scared to go all out. Is that like Normal i mean part of it is i want an amazing girl who maybe has gone through a similar time.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AreYouSingleFemale
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yeah, like > 30.
Luke Skywalker
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Well everyone on here knows I'm single, probably closer to a priest type of single than a player type of single since religion plays a big factor against my averision to sex - I've lived without a relationship or a woman in my life long enough to know I just dont need one and it seems when I did have a relationship I preferred to watch Doctor Who on youtube then spend much time on the phone with her, guess I'm just not that much into girls and am either involuntary/voluntary celibate or just do not care.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Define "single..." 
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
nismo-4
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I'm in the same boat you are.Dabrant29 said:
I DON'T try to go all out with a HB 7+ cuz i know I'll get rejected and kill all the attraction faster than a donut in front of a cop.
As for hanging out, I get to that phase and I apparently can't make anything blossom beyond the friends zone. I rely on pure luck for those matters i.e. guessing the next step/move. I be hoping something happens! (usually 2 in 10 times I succeed) As stated above, maving a move will only kill...ME! Plus all attraction!
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