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I just want to count. I've recently been wondering if I would ever want to settle down so I want to know how many are on the same boat.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Older men that are single, please raise your hands
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dabrant29
Don Juan
dude i am 21 and i can get girls to hang out laugh , come over flirt i just get scared to go all out. Is that like Normal i mean part of it is i want an amazing girl who maybe has gone through a similar time.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
AreYouSingleFemale
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yeah, like > 30.
Luke Skywalker
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Well everyone on here knows I'm single, probably closer to a priest type of single than a player type of single since religion plays a big factor against my averision to sex - I've lived without a relationship or a woman in my life long enough to know I just dont need one and it seems when I did have a relationship I preferred to watch Doctor Who on youtube then spend much time on the phone with her, guess I'm just not that much into girls and am either involuntary/voluntary celibate or just do not care.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Define "single..." 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I'm in the same boat you are.Dabrant29 said:
I DON'T try to go all out with a HB 7+ cuz i know I'll get rejected and kill all the attraction faster than a donut in front of a cop.
As for hanging out, I get to that phase and I apparently can't make anything blossom beyond the friends zone. I rely on pure luck for those matters i.e. guessing the next step/move. I be hoping something happens! (usually 2 in 10 times I succeed) As stated above, maving a move will only kill...ME! Plus all attraction!
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