"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Old member back here after a long break

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Hello guys, I joined these forums back in 2002, and I used to post here all the time. After 2005 I joined a lair for the north of England (very good site btw) and sort of lost touch with sosuave.com. In 2006 I got really involved with canned routines, techniques etc etc.

I'm glad to say that after a period away from here, I'm back! And I love this site because the DJ philosophy is based on a mindset and natural game, rather than techniques and canned material.

So hello to all newbies, and is there anyone here from 2002/2003/2004/2005 era?

I have had a bad run in my game lately and so I need some help and motivation from you guys, but I'm determined to sort things out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Guitar_Whizz said:
...I'm glad to say that after a period away from here, I'm back! And I love this site because the DJ philosophy is based on a mindset and natural game, rather than techniques and canned material....
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Dude!!! You really need to write a post on how relying heavily on canned material effects your game!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guitar_Whizz

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Dude!!! You really need to write a post on how relying heavily on canned material effects your game!
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Yeah good idea, I will do that soon!
 
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penkitten said:
im ok
how are you?
wth you been??
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I'm fine. I've been mostly posting on a seduction lair site for the north of England (northenglandlair.com) so not really been here much. But I came to realise what a gem sosuave.com is, and I'm glad to say I'm back.

I absolutely hate canned game. Mystery Method, etc etc is all complete junk.

I'm going to write a post on how canned material affected my game soon, watch this space.

You're from the UK aren't you? Or am I mistaken? And you're a female member too if I remember rightly - your insights into seduction were very enlightening, I have lots of things I'd like to talk to you about related to dating/meeting women, I'd really appreciate your insights.
 
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Guitar_Whizz said:
I'm fine. I've been mostly posting on a seduction lair site for the north of England (northenglandlair.com) so not really been here much. But I came to realise what a gem sosuave.com is, and I'm glad to say I'm back.

I absolutely hate canned game. Mystery Method, etc etc is all complete junk.

I'm going to write a post on how canned material affected my game soon, watch this space.

You're from the UK aren't you? Or am I mistaken? And you're a female member too if I remember rightly - your insights into seduction were very enlightening, I have lots of things I'd like to talk to you about related to dating/meeting women, I'd really appreciate your insights.
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glad to see you back.
i'll watch for that post.
yes, i am a female, but im from kentucky in the usa.
looking forward to hearing back from you about your recent adventures.
 
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I'm the "SAY 'NO' TO HOS" dude - AKA PuertoRican_Lover!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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