"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Old member back here after a long break

Guitar_Whizz

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Hello guys, I joined these forums back in 2002, and I used to post here all the time. After 2005 I joined a lair for the north of England (very good site btw) and sort of lost touch with sosuave.com. In 2006 I got really involved with canned routines, techniques etc etc.

I'm glad to say that after a period away from here, I'm back! And I love this site because the DJ philosophy is based on a mindset and natural game, rather than techniques and canned material.

So hello to all newbies, and is there anyone here from 2002/2003/2004/2005 era?

I have had a bad run in my game lately and so I need some help and motivation from you guys, but I'm determined to sort things out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Guitar_Whizz said:
...I'm glad to say that after a period away from here, I'm back! And I love this site because the DJ philosophy is based on a mindset and natural game, rather than techniques and canned material....
Dude!!! You really need to write a post on how relying heavily on canned material effects your game!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Dude!!! You really need to write a post on how relying heavily on canned material effects your game!
Yeah good idea, I will do that soon!
 

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penkitten said:
im ok
how are you?
wth you been??
I'm fine. I've been mostly posting on a seduction lair site for the north of England (northenglandlair.com) so not really been here much. But I came to realise what a gem sosuave.com is, and I'm glad to say I'm back.

I absolutely hate canned game. Mystery Method, etc etc is all complete junk.

I'm going to write a post on how canned material affected my game soon, watch this space.

You're from the UK aren't you? Or am I mistaken? And you're a female member too if I remember rightly - your insights into seduction were very enlightening, I have lots of things I'd like to talk to you about related to dating/meeting women, I'd really appreciate your insights.
 

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Guitar_Whizz said:
I'm fine. I've been mostly posting on a seduction lair site for the north of England (northenglandlair.com) so not really been here much. But I came to realise what a gem sosuave.com is, and I'm glad to say I'm back.

I absolutely hate canned game. Mystery Method, etc etc is all complete junk.

I'm going to write a post on how canned material affected my game soon, watch this space.

You're from the UK aren't you? Or am I mistaken? And you're a female member too if I remember rightly - your insights into seduction were very enlightening, I have lots of things I'd like to talk to you about related to dating/meeting women, I'd really appreciate your insights.
glad to see you back.
i'll watch for that post.
yes, i am a female, but im from kentucky in the usa.
looking forward to hearing back from you about your recent adventures.
 
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I'm the "SAY 'NO' TO HOS" dude - AKA PuertoRican_Lover!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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