"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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OLD matches asking for video calls!

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bario said:
Got a few matches recently on OLD. Couple of the ladies are preferring doing a video call first than going out, due to COVID and the restrictions in the region!

I personally don't like that and find it awkward.

What's your views on this?
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Here most members tell you what they believe is acceptable, man is first and screw the female. If I were you I would try to think in her way. I would look into her way of thinking, I would stand in her shoes. I would look into her perpective.
If I were her, and I have never met you and I do not know you, I would think in catfish, you are a rapist, child abuser, crazy nut job, kidnapper....Online dating Troll...and so on.

You do know OLD is impersonal, no?

Also, some male warriors here are fighting the gender war....

So it may work and it may not work. I wouldn't mind doing the video call, after all, you dont know her either and you do not want to end up in catfish or worst, being stood up by her.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bario said:
Got a few matches recently on OLD. Couple of the ladies are preferring doing a video call first than going out, due to COVID and the restrictions in the region!

I personally don't like that and find it awkward.

What's your views on this?
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Sounds like BS. I don't like it at all. The only time it makes sense is if she's on the other side of the world and it's impossible to travel. Tell her to send you a video message first and, if you like it, then reply.
 
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Suave88 said:
It is not about being a convicted rapist or simply an uncaught rapist, it is about exposure.
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Yeah and imagine most rapists, nonces etc are good at hiding their true character, usually quite charming from what I've read, to build comfort and lower people's defences.

Unlikely they're wild eye maniacs that show their true colours to people.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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B80 said:
Yeah and imagine most rapists, nonces etc are good at hiding their true character, usually quite charming from what I've read, to build comfort and lower people's defences.

Unlikely they're wild eye maniacs that show their true colours to people.
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All I can tell you is my mother wouldn't do it, my sisters wouldn't do it, my cousins wouldn't do it. All of them are sane women. Unless he is trying to ask out a prostitute, he should expect this behavior from most females. Trust me, females do not understand the male's alpha way. He is trying to get her on a date, and she is trying to know who he is.
 
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