The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Ofcourse no time wasting. I wasnt sure with this one at the beginning as I never encountered girl liked that, was always dating open ones so I needed some words of wisdom.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
YA man. You sound like a good lad. Stay on the grind. Vet your gurus. You can change your life but get your life together. Resources are important. You can be like Cajun, bum life, and pull girls but why? Live a good life. She's another brick in the wall. Guys are blue pill. Even the most physically alpha guy is beta. He can kick ass but he will white knight. He will pander. Really alpha ruthless fellas are outliers. You must be pragmatic about your life and savage about time vampires.
Thanks bro.Its always about progress as a man, not chasing or anything. I didn't waste no more time on that girl whatsoever, now I need a girl to drain my pipez and Im meeting one tonight.