Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ofcourse no time wasting. I wasnt sure with this one at the beginning as I never encountered girl liked that, was always dating open ones so I needed some words of wisdom.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
YA man. You sound like a good lad. Stay on the grind. Vet your gurus. You can change your life but get your life together. Resources are important. You can be like Cajun, bum life, and pull girls but why? Live a good life. She's another brick in the wall. Guys are blue pill. Even the most physically alpha guy is beta. He can kick ass but he will white knight. He will pander. Really alpha ruthless fellas are outliers. You must be pragmatic about your life and savage about time vampires.
Thanks bro.Its always about progress as a man, not chasing or anything. I didn't waste no more time on that girl whatsoever, now I need a girl to drain my pipez and Im meeting one tonight.