Old Age advice vs New Age advice

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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(the 75 year old going after the 19 year old example would have never been realistically pitched here or elsewhere except by very delusional people, etc.).
Amazingly, I could link you to probably hundreds of screen names from places like seddit and skilledseducer who will tell you exactly that, tbh lol.
And it would have probably been even more common in the olden days.
Obviously the people selling this idea are mostly coaches.
The other people spouting it are typically people who are just gullible guys, desperate to believe that it's all in your control (even if they have had like zero success with women at all) and will be quite vocal about how every excuse for rejection is simply a limiting belief (looks, age wahtever) and that it's always a game issue
 

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We forget that there are a lot of women walking on this planet, but we let a handful of women shape our perspectives.
i feel that people whom do not spend a good proportion of their time in the field, are just battling a competition that does not really exists at the level they believe

sounds to me more like Don Quixote battling the wind mills thinking they are monsters
 

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I used to talk about game to women friends back in the day. While they enjoyed the “field reports” because they were funny/juicy/sexy stories, they were always subtly or not so subtly dismissive of game and its tactics. They would often shift the conversation back to looks.

But I was brainwashed by gurus back then to “not take advice from a fish” so I didn’t think anything of it at the time.

TLDR: The fish knew the truth.
 
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I used to talk about game to women friends back in the day. While they enjoyed the “field reports” because they were funny/juicy/sexy stories, they were always subtly or not so subtly dismissive of game and its tactics. They would often shift the conversation back to looks.

But I was brainwashed by gurus back then to “not take advice from a fish” so I didn’t think anything of it at the time.

TLDR: The fish knew the truth.
I would say that part is 100% true. I've never heard a woman give good dating advice to a man. And it's not necessarily because they want to deliberately sabotage you by giving you bad advice. It's because they are psychologically incapable of admitting certain things. Just like a stupid person will never admit to being stupid.
 
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I used to talk about game to women friends back in the day. While they enjoyed the “field reports” because they were funny/juicy/sexy stories, they were always subtly or not so subtly dismissive of game and its tactics. They would often shift the conversation back to looks.

But I was brainwashed by gurus back then to “not take advice from a fish” so I didn’t think anything of it at the time.

TLDR: The fish knew the truth.
The only thing the fish knows is that it doesn't want to be perceived as an easy catch (even if she is). Hence these women telling you how game doesn't work, how men who try are "predators", some other nonsense, etc. Good looking people get away with more; but a person's action, confidence, and charisma is ultimately just as important if you're pulling women.
 

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I used to talk about game to women friends back in the day. While they enjoyed the “field reports” because they were funny/juicy/sexy stories, they were always subtly or not so subtly dismissive of game and its tactics. They would often shift the conversation back to looks.

But I was brainwashed by gurus back then to “not take advice from a fish” so I didn’t think anything of it at the time.

TLDR: The fish knew the truth.
But when I pressed a few of them and called them out using their own situations, they admitted some of it worked.
 

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Still talkin bout money, huh?

:rofl::rofl:
The bombs could be flying like it's 1999 and everyone be out trying to get laid, and peeps in here still be talking the long con. Lmao.
 

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Like Clockwerk50 said... old age advice is all about negotiating desire and talking women into sleeping with you.

New age advice is to become the better man and become desirable instead of having to convince someone to fvck you.
In theory agree, but the issue with new age advice is, by the time the man becomes desirable, the woman has already slept with 10 guys.

There are 2 different wavelengths here:

Old age advice: Negotiate desire and convince her to sleep with you. The woman is a virgin
New age advice. Become more desirable and increase SMV (saving height and hair). The woman is not a virgin 10x over.

I would say if the man wants baby and family, old age advice better. If the man wants to sleep around with hot girls, new age advice is better.
 

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@BadBoy89 "The woman is a virgin"

For the most part, those occur in two scenarios, hoss:

-Paperback Harlequin novels, written by bored, undersexed housewives, and read by the sort of airheads who compromise Delilah's
fanbase The untouched heroine is generally an au pair in some fictional Near Eastern nation, and the hero a sheikh who's tired of boning supermodels

-Towns with populations of 200 and dwindling, filled with yokels who mistake re-runs of Blue Bloods and Chicago Fire/it's millions of spin-offs for high culture

Goes without saying, the former is even more fictious than a White House that takes The Constitution seriously, and the cost of leaving metropolitan life for the latter is exceptionally steep

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