At first I thought this chick had high interest because she came up to me, she's going with me to a prom thing which will be at a beach and we stay in a cabin thing, and we've had lunch together and she wasn't even hungry but still came, plus she knows a lot about me already which is creepy, and she talks a lot. Also, she initiates a lot of kino. Turns out she's really friendly and she'll reply to my text within seconds or it will take up to hours for her to respond, but her responses are usually good.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Okay I'm seriously confused about this one chick
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Rubato
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I don't see a problem?
R
Rubato
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Dude, you need to relax. I realize you're prolly in high school since you're going to prom with her, but not hearing from her, or not hearing back from her in one day is not a big deal. That is not a sign of interest or disinterest dude.
All of the things you mentioned, besides her texting pattern, are real life actions, substantive examples of her interest. Dude, sometimes I don't text people back, my girlfriends back, or anyone back for any number of reasons that does NOT include me not liking them.
How sexual have you been with the girl? If you want a reliable indicator of interest, that's it.
Girls have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you are not f*cking her, you are her girlfriend.
All of the things you mentioned, besides her texting pattern, are real life actions, substantive examples of her interest. Dude, sometimes I don't text people back, my girlfriends back, or anyone back for any number of reasons that does NOT include me not liking them.
How sexual have you been with the girl? If you want a reliable indicator of interest, that's it.
Girls have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you are not f*cking her, you are her girlfriend.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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You can't go around worrying about how long its been since the last time she txt you. It sounds AFC and we're tring to be Don Juans. DJ's only talk on the phone to set up dates. Nothing more, nothing less. If she doesnt accept your date, she is not interested.
cablecow15
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not surprised to see u write threads like this