At first I thought this chick had high interest because she came up to me, she's going with me to a prom thing which will be at a beach and we stay in a cabin thing, and we've had lunch together and she wasn't even hungry but still came, plus she knows a lot about me already which is creepy, and she talks a lot. Also, she initiates a lot of kino. Turns out she's really friendly and she'll reply to my text within seconds or it will take up to hours for her to respond, but her responses are usually good.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Okay I'm seriously confused about this one chick
- Thread starter JPlaya
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
R
Rubato
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I don't see a problem?
R
Rubato
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Dude, you need to relax. I realize you're prolly in high school since you're going to prom with her, but not hearing from her, or not hearing back from her in one day is not a big deal. That is not a sign of interest or disinterest dude.
All of the things you mentioned, besides her texting pattern, are real life actions, substantive examples of her interest. Dude, sometimes I don't text people back, my girlfriends back, or anyone back for any number of reasons that does NOT include me not liking them.
How sexual have you been with the girl? If you want a reliable indicator of interest, that's it.
Girls have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you are not f*cking her, you are her girlfriend.
All of the things you mentioned, besides her texting pattern, are real life actions, substantive examples of her interest. Dude, sometimes I don't text people back, my girlfriends back, or anyone back for any number of reasons that does NOT include me not liking them.
How sexual have you been with the girl? If you want a reliable indicator of interest, that's it.
Girls have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you are not f*cking her, you are her girlfriend.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Krueg
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You can't go around worrying about how long its been since the last time she txt you. It sounds AFC and we're tring to be Don Juans. DJ's only talk on the phone to set up dates. Nothing more, nothing less. If she doesnt accept your date, she is not interested.
cablecow15
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not surprised to see u write threads like this