"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Okay I need my shirt back

challice

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How do you usually go about getting clothes back from women. I let a girl borrow my $75 t-shirt just because she was cold.

She's now sleeping in it which made me cringe when I saw her doing that.

She's had it for about two weeks now, I didn't actually notice it was gone until the other nite when I was over at her place.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Juan and only

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Don't be such a pvssy. It's your just take it.


JC
Damn right.

There's no need to be nasty to her, just say you want it back.
 

challice

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Haha, great responses. I definitely did sound like a b**ch when I read that out loud, after I posted.
 

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Originally posted by The Juan and only
There's no need to be nasty to her, just say you want it back.
No you don't ask you just take it. If he comes over to her place and sees the shirt he just takes it. Why does he need a permission to get his shirt back?

It will be nice of her to have his shirt to be dry cleaned before she gives it back to him. Unfortuantly most women don't even think about it and hand you back your sweaty crumpled up shirt they wore that reek's of 5 different perfumes.

DjDamage
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by DJDamage
No you don't ask you just take it. If he comes over to her place and sees the shirt he just takes it. Why does he need a permission to get his shirt back?

It will be nice of her to have his shirt to be dry cleaned before she gives it back to him. Unfortuantly most women don't even think about it and hand you back your sweaty crumpled up shirt they wore that reek's of 5 different perfumes.

DjDamage
yeah ok, if you see it around then YES just take it. However that's not always practical....if she's had it for two weeks then its very possible he'll have no idea where it is and will have to tell her he wants its back.
 

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why the hell would you give a chick a 75 dollar shirt?

Id give her an old hanes tshirt or maybe a spare wifebeater...if the chick is cold she can snuggle up wit my nuts.
 
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