"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Okay I need my shirt back

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How do you usually go about getting clothes back from women. I let a girl borrow my $75 t-shirt just because she was cold.

She's now sleeping in it which made me cringe when I saw her doing that.

She's had it for about two weeks now, I didn't actually notice it was gone until the other nite when I was over at her place.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Don't be such a pvssy. It's your just take it.


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Damn right.

There's no need to be nasty to her, just say you want it back.
 
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Haha, great responses. I definitely did sound like a b**ch when I read that out loud, after I posted.
 
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Originally posted by The Juan and only
There's no need to be nasty to her, just say you want it back.
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No you don't ask you just take it. If he comes over to her place and sees the shirt he just takes it. Why does he need a permission to get his shirt back?

It will be nice of her to have his shirt to be dry cleaned before she gives it back to him. Unfortuantly most women don't even think about it and hand you back your sweaty crumpled up shirt they wore that reek's of 5 different perfumes.

DjDamage
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by DJDamage
No you don't ask you just take it. If he comes over to her place and sees the shirt he just takes it. Why does he need a permission to get his shirt back?

It will be nice of her to have his shirt to be dry cleaned before she gives it back to him. Unfortuantly most women don't even think about it and hand you back your sweaty crumpled up shirt they wore that reek's of 5 different perfumes.

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yeah ok, if you see it around then YES just take it. However that's not always practical....if she's had it for two weeks then its very possible he'll have no idea where it is and will have to tell her he wants its back.
 
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why the hell would you give a chick a 75 dollar shirt?

Id give her an old hanes tshirt or maybe a spare wifebeater...if the chick is cold she can snuggle up wit my nuts.
 
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