Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You were there? I was there from 8 am until 6 that night lol. Never saw a crowd take to a horse like they have in the past and they did that day with Zenyatta. Saw grown man crying when she won lol. Have all kinds of pics of her. Helluva race horse.backbreaker said:I lift 6 days a week but i have a very nice setup at home so I dont go to the gym
I go the track 4-5 days a week, on my way there now actually (Breeders cup)
backbreaker said:I lift 6 days a week but i have a very nice setup at home so I dont go to the gym
I go the track 4-5 days a week, on my way there now actually (Breeders cup)
hell I cried like a little b!tch. very emotional scene.cordoncordon said:You were there? I was there from 8 am until 6 that night lol. Never saw a crowd take to a horse like they have in the past and they did that day with Zenyatta. Saw grown man crying when she won lol. Have all kinds of pics of her. Helluva race horse.
BTW I live about 7 minutes away from there.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
hell the good friends I do have I meet at the track. not the sterotypes you would think (73 year old people with pacemakers walking around)st_99 said:I'm thinking the track is not a very good place to meet friends, unless you're into hanging out with 73 yo men who sh*t themselves.
But seriously, my social life blows also. It didn't always, it just seems like a series of bad luck and bad decisions over the years led me down the path of lame social life. sux.
and thats amazing to me, thats incredible. Its like me meeting my future wife at the poker tables. I would put the odds a 1000:1.backbreaker said:my soon to be fiancee (i'm proposing next week, it's a suprise) I met at the track.
explain to me how meeting a woman at the horse track is different from meeting a woman at starbucks, a night club, a sports bar or at a grocery store?st_99 said:and thats amazing to me, thats incredible. Its like me meeting my future wife at the poker tables. I would put the odds a 1000:1.
I think for you its definitely meant to be then. Lets face it, the track is NOT the place to meet chics so if you do it must be THE ONE.
horse lover and riding enthusiast since childhood, she is the owner of Iberian horses and is a spokesperson for the Animal Welfare Institute's national campaign to end horse slaughter through passage of federal and state legislation. On February 5, 2002, she published her autobiography entitled Riding Lessons: Everything That Matters in Life I Learned from Horses (ISBN 0-060-39437-4).
Derek currently serves on the California Horse Racing Board of Directors.[
quoted for truthUnbridled_Phoenix said:st99 is way off.
"Good" girls love horses. Not all good girls love horses, but you don't see gutter skanks at the horsetrack, especially up in the boxes![]()
I go to Keeneland a couple times a year, and it is a$$ city down there. UK college girls down on the ground, and hot young things in fancy dresses up in the stands. Kentucky is a sleeper state, you wouldn't think so, but anytime I'm in Lexington or Louisville I see HBs like crazy.
One of my goals of the next 5 years is to buy a couple good horses and ride them all over the place, I'm bringing back the horse y'all
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wrong against_99 said:Nah, u got me all wrong. Its not about the gambling. I'm just saying the ratio of men to women at the track has to be like 40 to 1 or something like that.
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