"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok when you tell a girl oh so your one of those people?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Here's an idea for you, start coming up with your own ideas. Grow an imagination and people will stop treating you like sh!t because you know how to come up with the things we can come up with. Also, you'll feel a lot better and less insecure knowing how to do that. We're helping you go the hard way by not providing you the easy way, by doing so we're forcing you to truly be yourself.

To me you're one of those people who lacks imagination, and as of yet there's no clear way of teaching people to be creative. I guess that comes from fvcking up and trying harder until your mind (imaginatively) explodes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Bro, she's just 'one of those' girls. Okay. If she doesn't actually FEEL what you mean (as girls are super emotional creatures) then she wouldn't get it even if you told her. Just 'one of those' is a good enough example. Besides, it shows that you are judging her and you won't tell her how she is like so she will be more vulnerable around you.

I shouldn't even be telling you this, go read the fvcking bible already.
 
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