"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ok when you tell a girl oh so your one of those people?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Serenity

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Here's an idea for you, start coming up with your own ideas. Grow an imagination and people will stop treating you like sh!t because you know how to come up with the things we can come up with. Also, you'll feel a lot better and less insecure knowing how to do that. We're helping you go the hard way by not providing you the easy way, by doing so we're forcing you to truly be yourself.

To me you're one of those people who lacks imagination, and as of yet there's no clear way of teaching people to be creative. I guess that comes from fvcking up and trying harder until your mind (imaginatively) explodes.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Bro, she's just 'one of those' girls. Okay. If she doesn't actually FEEL what you mean (as girls are super emotional creatures) then she wouldn't get it even if you told her. Just 'one of those' is a good enough example. Besides, it shows that you are judging her and you won't tell her how she is like so she will be more vulnerable around you.

I shouldn't even be telling you this, go read the fvcking bible already.
 
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