"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok when you tell a girl oh so your one of those people?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Here's an idea for you, start coming up with your own ideas. Grow an imagination and people will stop treating you like sh!t because you know how to come up with the things we can come up with. Also, you'll feel a lot better and less insecure knowing how to do that. We're helping you go the hard way by not providing you the easy way, by doing so we're forcing you to truly be yourself.

To me you're one of those people who lacks imagination, and as of yet there's no clear way of teaching people to be creative. I guess that comes from fvcking up and trying harder until your mind (imaginatively) explodes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Bro, she's just 'one of those' girls. Okay. If she doesn't actually FEEL what you mean (as girls are super emotional creatures) then she wouldn't get it even if you told her. Just 'one of those' is a good enough example. Besides, it shows that you are judging her and you won't tell her how she is like so she will be more vulnerable around you.

I shouldn't even be telling you this, go read the fvcking bible already.
 
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