thelonewolflegend
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She said what exactly is "one of those" how do u reply?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ok when you tell a girl oh so your one of those people?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
thelonewolflegend
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Im serious she askee hury!!!
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Here's an idea for you, start coming up with your own ideas. Grow an imagination and people will stop treating you like sh!t because you know how to come up with the things we can come up with. Also, you'll feel a lot better and less insecure knowing how to do that. We're helping you go the hard way by not providing you the easy way, by doing so we're forcing you to truly be yourself.
To me you're one of those people who lacks imagination, and as of yet there's no clear way of teaching people to be creative. I guess that comes from fvcking up and trying harder until your mind (imaginatively) explodes.
To me you're one of those people who lacks imagination, and as of yet there's no clear way of teaching people to be creative. I guess that comes from fvcking up and trying harder until your mind (imaginatively) explodes.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Bro, she's just 'one of those' girls. Okay. If she doesn't actually FEEL what you mean (as girls are super emotional creatures) then she wouldn't get it even if you told her. Just 'one of those' is a good enough example. Besides, it shows that you are judging her and you won't tell her how she is like so she will be more vulnerable around you.
I shouldn't even be telling you this, go read the fvcking bible already.
I shouldn't even be telling you this, go read the fvcking bible already.