"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bigtrucker2008

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There is a particular girl who I'm currently talking to, but we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend right now. Ok, so earlier I was talking to her about when are we gonna go to the next level, speaking of sex. Her response was "What? SEX?". I never had that happened and I didnt know what to do, so I acted like I was joking. I'm not sure if she believed me though.

Now, I think there may or may not be an awkwardness there. Because, we've talked about sex before plenty of times, but not me actually meeting to have sex with her or anything like that.

My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bigtrucker2008 said:
My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???
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Talk to her about her problems, about her life, let her spill herself onto you about her bad boyfriends. Absorb that stuff, and sponge it out of her.



On a serious note, it appears that you are crawling and she is making fun of you. Get it over with. Kino, kiss, fvck. Try to fit it into your next meet. She is practically begging you to fvck her.
 
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lol

"Taking it to the next level"

Get that traditional dating BS out of here. Why do you even have to ask about being bf/gf or even "taking it to the next level" thats pure AFC and will automatically throw sex out of the window.

If you want to have sex ESCALATE stop asking lead, lead, lead...and when in doubt LEAD. You can't asking for sex that triggers her auto pilot response. NEVER ask for sex.

Well since you already did what you did your best bet is to just act like it never happened.
 
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Snow Plowman said:
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"Taking it to the next level"

Get that traditional dating BS out of here. Why do you even have to ask about being bf/gf or even "taking it to the next level" thats pure AFC and will automatically throw sex out of the window.[/B]
If you want to have sex ESCALATE stop asking lead, lead, lead...and when in doubt LEAD. You can't asking for sex that triggers her auto pilot response. NEVER ask for sex.
Well since you already did what you did your best bet is to just act like it never happened.
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Well, actually, something happened. I smashed. I mean, not that I didnt think it would happen, but I thought I may have completely ruined my chances when she did that "SEX?? WHAT?!?!" thing. But naw, she actually wanted it even more after I mentioned us having sex. So yeah.....

Mr. Wolf was more right than anyone, but Snow Plowman could be right too. The only thing is: I didnt ask her for sex.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bigtrucker2008 said:
There is a particular girl who I'm currently talking to, but we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend right now. Ok, so earlier I was talking to her about when are we gonna go to the next level, speaking of sex. Her response was "What? SEX?". I never had that happened and I didnt know what to do, so I acted like I was joking. I'm not sure if she believed me though.

Now, I think there may or may not be an awkwardness there. Because, we've talked about sex before plenty of times, but not me actually meeting to have sex with her or anything like that.

My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???
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I missed the interesting part...
 
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