OK, Interesting Situation

[Bigtrucker2008]

There is a particular girl who I'm currently talking to, but we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend right now. Ok, so earlier I was talking to her about when are we gonna go to the next level, speaking of sex. Her response was "What? SEX?". I never had that happened and I didnt know what to do, so I acted like I was joking. I'm not sure if she believed me though.

Now, I think there may or may not be an awkwardness there. Because, we've talked about sex before plenty of times, but not me actually meeting to have sex with her or anything like that.

My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???

 

[Mr. Wolf]

My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???

Talk to her about her problems, about her life, let her spill herself onto you about her bad boyfriends. Absorb that stuff, and sponge it out of her.



On a serious note, it appears that you are crawling and she is making fun of you. Get it over with. Kino, kiss, fvck. Try to fit it into your next meet. She is practically begging you to fvck her.

 

[Snow Plowman]

lol

"Taking it to the next level"

Get that traditional dating BS out of here. Why do you even have to ask about being bf/gf or even "taking it to the next level" thats pure AFC and will automatically throw sex out of the window.

If you want to have sex ESCALATE stop asking lead, lead, lead...and when in doubt LEAD. You can't asking for sex that triggers her auto pilot response. NEVER ask for sex.

Well since you already did what you did your best bet is to just act like it never happened.

 

[Interceptor]

lol

"Taking it to the next level"

Get that traditional dating BS out of here. Why do you even have to ask about being bf/gf or even "taking it to the next level" thats pure AFC and will automatically throw sex out of the window.[/B]
If you want to have sex ESCALATE stop asking lead, lead, lead...and when in doubt LEAD. You can't asking for sex that triggers her auto pilot response. NEVER ask for sex.
Well since you already did what you did your best bet is to just act like it never happened.

:yes:

 

[Bigtrucker2008]

Well, actually, something happened. I smashed. I mean, not that I didnt think it would happen, but I thought I may have completely ruined my chances when she did that "SEX?? WHAT?!?!" thing. But naw, she actually wanted it even more after I mentioned us having sex. So yeah.....

Mr. Wolf was more right than anyone, but Snow Plowman could be right too. The only thing is: I didnt ask her for sex.

 

[trojanman88]

There is a particular girl who I'm currently talking to, but we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend right now. Ok, so earlier I was talking to her about when are we gonna go to the next level, speaking of sex. Her response was "What? SEX?". I never had that happened and I didnt know what to do, so I acted like I was joking. I'm not sure if she believed me though.

Now, I think there may or may not be an awkwardness there. Because, we've talked about sex before plenty of times, but not me actually meeting to have sex with her or anything like that.

My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???

I missed the interesting part...