"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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There is a particular girl who I'm currently talking to, but we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend right now. Ok, so earlier I was talking to her about when are we gonna go to the next level, speaking of sex. Her response was "What? SEX?". I never had that happened and I didnt know what to do, so I acted like I was joking. I'm not sure if she believed me though.

Now, I think there may or may not be an awkwardness there. Because, we've talked about sex before plenty of times, but not me actually meeting to have sex with her or anything like that.

My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bigtrucker2008 said:
My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???
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Talk to her about her problems, about her life, let her spill herself onto you about her bad boyfriends. Absorb that stuff, and sponge it out of her.



On a serious note, it appears that you are crawling and she is making fun of you. Get it over with. Kino, kiss, fvck. Try to fit it into your next meet. She is practically begging you to fvck her.
 
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"Taking it to the next level"

Get that traditional dating BS out of here. Why do you even have to ask about being bf/gf or even "taking it to the next level" thats pure AFC and will automatically throw sex out of the window.

If you want to have sex ESCALATE stop asking lead, lead, lead...and when in doubt LEAD. You can't asking for sex that triggers her auto pilot response. NEVER ask for sex.

Well since you already did what you did your best bet is to just act like it never happened.
 
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"Taking it to the next level"

Get that traditional dating BS out of here. Why do you even have to ask about being bf/gf or even "taking it to the next level" thats pure AFC and will automatically throw sex out of the window.[/B]
If you want to have sex ESCALATE stop asking lead, lead, lead...and when in doubt LEAD. You can't asking for sex that triggers her auto pilot response. NEVER ask for sex.
Well since you already did what you did your best bet is to just act like it never happened.
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Well, actually, something happened. I smashed. I mean, not that I didnt think it would happen, but I thought I may have completely ruined my chances when she did that "SEX?? WHAT?!?!" thing. But naw, she actually wanted it even more after I mentioned us having sex. So yeah.....

Mr. Wolf was more right than anyone, but Snow Plowman could be right too. The only thing is: I didnt ask her for sex.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bigtrucker2008 said:
There is a particular girl who I'm currently talking to, but we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend right now. Ok, so earlier I was talking to her about when are we gonna go to the next level, speaking of sex. Her response was "What? SEX?". I never had that happened and I didnt know what to do, so I acted like I was joking. I'm not sure if she believed me though.

Now, I think there may or may not be an awkwardness there. Because, we've talked about sex before plenty of times, but not me actually meeting to have sex with her or anything like that.

My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???
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I missed the interesting part...
 
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