"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bigtrucker2008

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There is a particular girl who I'm currently talking to, but we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend right now. Ok, so earlier I was talking to her about when are we gonna go to the next level, speaking of sex. Her response was "What? SEX?". I never had that happened and I didnt know what to do, so I acted like I was joking. I'm not sure if she believed me though.

Now, I think there may or may not be an awkwardness there. Because, we've talked about sex before plenty of times, but not me actually meeting to have sex with her or anything like that.

My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bigtrucker2008 said:
My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???
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Talk to her about her problems, about her life, let her spill herself onto you about her bad boyfriends. Absorb that stuff, and sponge it out of her.



On a serious note, it appears that you are crawling and she is making fun of you. Get it over with. Kino, kiss, fvck. Try to fit it into your next meet. She is practically begging you to fvck her.
 
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"Taking it to the next level"

Get that traditional dating BS out of here. Why do you even have to ask about being bf/gf or even "taking it to the next level" thats pure AFC and will automatically throw sex out of the window.

If you want to have sex ESCALATE stop asking lead, lead, lead...and when in doubt LEAD. You can't asking for sex that triggers her auto pilot response. NEVER ask for sex.

Well since you already did what you did your best bet is to just act like it never happened.
 
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Snow Plowman said:
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"Taking it to the next level"

Get that traditional dating BS out of here. Why do you even have to ask about being bf/gf or even "taking it to the next level" thats pure AFC and will automatically throw sex out of the window.[/B]
If you want to have sex ESCALATE stop asking lead, lead, lead...and when in doubt LEAD. You can't asking for sex that triggers her auto pilot response. NEVER ask for sex.
Well since you already did what you did your best bet is to just act like it never happened.
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Well, actually, something happened. I smashed. I mean, not that I didnt think it would happen, but I thought I may have completely ruined my chances when she did that "SEX?? WHAT?!?!" thing. But naw, she actually wanted it even more after I mentioned us having sex. So yeah.....

Mr. Wolf was more right than anyone, but Snow Plowman could be right too. The only thing is: I didnt ask her for sex.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bigtrucker2008 said:
There is a particular girl who I'm currently talking to, but we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend right now. Ok, so earlier I was talking to her about when are we gonna go to the next level, speaking of sex. Her response was "What? SEX?". I never had that happened and I didnt know what to do, so I acted like I was joking. I'm not sure if she believed me though.

Now, I think there may or may not be an awkwardness there. Because, we've talked about sex before plenty of times, but not me actually meeting to have sex with her or anything like that.

My question is What can I do to make sure we are still cool and things aren't awkward???
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I missed the interesting part...
 
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