"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok i asked out a girl...now what?

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it's kinda gets me angry bc she never initiates the texts, but she always texts me back. she doesn't write the 1 letter texts either. she writes me back paragraphs.

the thing is though...i've asked her on the date twice and the first time she bailed and tonight, we had finals in our class...so it's understandable that my timing was ****. but if she really liked me, wouldn't she try and reschedule it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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argh always with the texts on this board. Too much texting, give a girl a bit of space
 
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what do you mean give her space?...

i got her number monday, i texted her a few times on thursday and some on sunday.

don't worry bro...i'm not always on the **** like white on rice.
 
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She bailed on you once, give her another chance but not immediately. If she flakes again then let her initiate dates or just next her. 2 strike rule applied.

I had a girl flaked twice but gave a counter offer the second time she flaked, met up with her and F closed. So the rules can be bent depending on the situation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bullbearpig29 said:
what do you mean give her space?...

i got her number monday, i texted her a few times on thursday and some on sunday.

don't worry bro...i'm not always on the **** like white on rice.
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its too much txting. if you are going to be meeting then there is no need for texts, what are these texts meant to achieve?

Also she can't text you first...because there is no time for her to initiate a text, you are always sending first. And anyway stop worrying about texts. Girls like a message, sure, but they want to savour it when it comes, not get another one and another one, the higher the volume the less worth each one has
 
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