ok i asked out a girl...now what?

[bullbearpig29]

it's kinda gets me angry bc she never initiates the texts, but she always texts me back. she doesn't write the 1 letter texts either. she writes me back paragraphs.

the thing is though...i've asked her on the date twice and the first time she bailed and tonight, we had finals in our class...so it's understandable that my timing was ****. but if she really liked me, wouldn't she try and reschedule it?

 

[mahoney]

argh always with the texts on this board. Too much texting, give a girl a bit of space

 

[bullbearpig29]

what do you mean give her space?...

i got her number monday, i texted her a few times on thursday and some on sunday.

don't worry bro...i'm not always on the **** like white on rice.

 

[bullbearpig29]

bump for help.

 

[Htienvu]

She bailed on you once, give her another chance but not immediately. If she flakes again then let her initiate dates or just next her. 2 strike rule applied.

I had a girl flaked twice but gave a counter offer the second time she flaked, met up with her and F closed. So the rules can be bent depending on the situation.

 

[mahoney]

what do you mean give her space?...

i got her number monday, i texted her a few times on thursday and some on sunday.

don't worry bro...i'm not always on the **** like white on rice.

its too much txting. if you are going to be meeting then there is no need for texts, what are these texts meant to achieve?

Also she can't text you first...because there is no time for her to initiate a text, you are always sending first. And anyway stop worrying about texts. Girls like a message, sure, but they want to savour it when it comes, not get another one and another one, the higher the volume the less worth each one has