"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok i asked out a girl...now what?

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it's kinda gets me angry bc she never initiates the texts, but she always texts me back. she doesn't write the 1 letter texts either. she writes me back paragraphs.

the thing is though...i've asked her on the date twice and the first time she bailed and tonight, we had finals in our class...so it's understandable that my timing was ****. but if she really liked me, wouldn't she try and reschedule it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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argh always with the texts on this board. Too much texting, give a girl a bit of space
 
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what do you mean give her space?...

i got her number monday, i texted her a few times on thursday and some on sunday.

don't worry bro...i'm not always on the **** like white on rice.
 
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She bailed on you once, give her another chance but not immediately. If she flakes again then let her initiate dates or just next her. 2 strike rule applied.

I had a girl flaked twice but gave a counter offer the second time she flaked, met up with her and F closed. So the rules can be bent depending on the situation.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bullbearpig29 said:
what do you mean give her space?...

i got her number monday, i texted her a few times on thursday and some on sunday.

don't worry bro...i'm not always on the **** like white on rice.
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its too much txting. if you are going to be meeting then there is no need for texts, what are these texts meant to achieve?

Also she can't text you first...because there is no time for her to initiate a text, you are always sending first. And anyway stop worrying about texts. Girls like a message, sure, but they want to savour it when it comes, not get another one and another one, the higher the volume the less worth each one has
 
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