"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ok i asked out a girl...now what?

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it's kinda gets me angry bc she never initiates the texts, but she always texts me back. she doesn't write the 1 letter texts either. she writes me back paragraphs.

the thing is though...i've asked her on the date twice and the first time she bailed and tonight, we had finals in our class...so it's understandable that my timing was ****. but if she really liked me, wouldn't she try and reschedule it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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argh always with the texts on this board. Too much texting, give a girl a bit of space
 
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what do you mean give her space?...

i got her number monday, i texted her a few times on thursday and some on sunday.

don't worry bro...i'm not always on the **** like white on rice.
 
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She bailed on you once, give her another chance but not immediately. If she flakes again then let her initiate dates or just next her. 2 strike rule applied.

I had a girl flaked twice but gave a counter offer the second time she flaked, met up with her and F closed. So the rules can be bent depending on the situation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bullbearpig29 said:
what do you mean give her space?...

i got her number monday, i texted her a few times on thursday and some on sunday.

don't worry bro...i'm not always on the **** like white on rice.
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its too much txting. if you are going to be meeting then there is no need for texts, what are these texts meant to achieve?

Also she can't text you first...because there is no time for her to initiate a text, you are always sending first. And anyway stop worrying about texts. Girls like a message, sure, but they want to savour it when it comes, not get another one and another one, the higher the volume the less worth each one has
 
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