Well ive found out the girl i like used to like me 2 months back i found out in a truth or dare game,and i liked her then is what is disapointing,alot has happened between then and now with us,but im not in the friends zone,she even said "we are not innocent friends"...... what can i do to try get the attraction back?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Oh......
- Thread starter ye yeah
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Damn, write with some sense.
I'm going to try and scratch here....did you bang her...or date her, or what?
And anyways...what the hell, create some attraction again, it's possible.
I'm going to try and scratch here....did you bang her...or date her, or what?
And anyways...what the hell, create some attraction again, it's possible.
we have never kissed,but we hug she trys hit me in the balls,alot of kino mostly when she is drunk but,my ex is her best friend and she has told me before she wouldnt kiss me cause of her,although she would kiss me.
we always muck around and stuff general kino,all the ground work is done with her,how do i go about creating attraction again? do i do what i did back when she did like me? or... i actually think deep inside she does feel something for me,but trys to avoid it cause of my ex,any idea?s ... i wish she bloody told me she liked me 2 months ago
thanks for the reply
we always muck around and stuff general kino,all the ground work is done with her,how do i go about creating attraction again? do i do what i did back when she did like me? or... i actually think deep inside she does feel something for me,but trys to avoid it cause of my ex,any idea?s ... i wish she bloody told me she liked me 2 months ago
thanks for the reply
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You can crack the 'your ex is my best friend'
Get her really attracted/interested and kiss her. No questions asked. You might have to re-assure her that you are interested in you, and dismiss the 'ex....' stuff. That's probably the best way.
Get her really attracted/interested and kiss her. No questions asked. You might have to re-assure her that you are interested in you, and dismiss the 'ex....' stuff. That's probably the best way.
ohh ok thanks for the replys,she has slept at my house the last 2 nights but my ex was with her,its weird i can feel like theres something with this chick and me,they are coming over thursday night for a party (its my exes bday),and a few others will be there.. what im not sure about is. how exactly to act? to i show interest? or act de-tatched but flirty or go for the kill?,so much conflicting advice,what is best for this situation where i hafto tread carefully
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Ace: Want her?
Ye yeah: Yeah
Ace: Why are we still talking? Go get her.
Ye yeah: Oh right, duh. Why didn't I think of that? You are the greatest, Ace!
Ace: I try, I try...
Ye yeah: *runs off to get the girl*
Ye yeah: Yeah
Ace: Why are we still talking? Go get her.
Ye yeah: Oh right, duh. Why didn't I think of that? You are the greatest, Ace!
Ace: I try, I try...
Ye yeah: *runs off to get the girl*
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so just go and talk to both of them, and just be charming and game both at the same time. who cares, as long as your friend gets the most attention.
thanks for the advice fella's.. i know i sound re-petitive or whatever,but ive read the dj bible done countless searches,but the advice/bible conflicts itself,i'll put this simple lol........
Do i?
a.isolate her use kino etc and go for the kill
b.subtley go for her
c.show disinterest (one step forward/2 back) to create attraction
d.all of the above
main thing im confused with is,where do i show disinterest,and where do i show flat out i wanna get with her
Do i?
a.isolate her use kino etc and go for the kill
b.subtley go for her
c.show disinterest (one step forward/2 back) to create attraction
d.all of the above
main thing im confused with is,where do i show disinterest,and where do i show flat out i wanna get with her
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.