Well ive found out the girl i like used to like me 2 months back i found out in a truth or dare game,and i liked her then is what is disapointing,alot has happened between then and now with us,but im not in the friends zone,she even said "we are not innocent friends"...... what can i do to try get the attraction back?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Damn, write with some sense.
I'm going to try and scratch here....did you bang her...or date her, or what?
And anyways...what the hell, create some attraction again, it's possible.
I'm going to try and scratch here....did you bang her...or date her, or what?
And anyways...what the hell, create some attraction again, it's possible.
we have never kissed,but we hug she trys hit me in the balls,alot of kino mostly when she is drunk but,my ex is her best friend and she has told me before she wouldnt kiss me cause of her,although she would kiss me.
we always muck around and stuff general kino,all the ground work is done with her,how do i go about creating attraction again? do i do what i did back when she did like me? or... i actually think deep inside she does feel something for me,but trys to avoid it cause of my ex,any idea?s ... i wish she bloody told me she liked me 2 months ago
thanks for the reply
we always muck around and stuff general kino,all the ground work is done with her,how do i go about creating attraction again? do i do what i did back when she did like me? or... i actually think deep inside she does feel something for me,but trys to avoid it cause of my ex,any idea?s ... i wish she bloody told me she liked me 2 months ago
thanks for the reply
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You can crack the 'your ex is my best friend'
Get her really attracted/interested and kiss her. No questions asked. You might have to re-assure her that you are interested in you, and dismiss the 'ex....' stuff. That's probably the best way.
Get her really attracted/interested and kiss her. No questions asked. You might have to re-assure her that you are interested in you, and dismiss the 'ex....' stuff. That's probably the best way.
ohh ok thanks for the replys,she has slept at my house the last 2 nights but my ex was with her,its weird i can feel like theres something with this chick and me,they are coming over thursday night for a party (its my exes bday),and a few others will be there.. what im not sure about is. how exactly to act? to i show interest? or act de-tatched but flirty or go for the kill?,so much conflicting advice,what is best for this situation where i hafto tread carefully
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Ace: Want her?
Ye yeah: Yeah
Ace: Why are we still talking? Go get her.
Ye yeah: Oh right, duh. Why didn't I think of that? You are the greatest, Ace!
Ace: I try, I try...
Ye yeah: *runs off to get the girl*
Ye yeah: Yeah
Ace: Why are we still talking? Go get her.
Ye yeah: Oh right, duh. Why didn't I think of that? You are the greatest, Ace!
Ace: I try, I try...
Ye yeah: *runs off to get the girl*
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so just go and talk to both of them, and just be charming and game both at the same time. who cares, as long as your friend gets the most attention.
thanks for the advice fella's.. i know i sound re-petitive or whatever,but ive read the dj bible done countless searches,but the advice/bible conflicts itself,i'll put this simple lol........
Do i?
a.isolate her use kino etc and go for the kill
b.subtley go for her
c.show disinterest (one step forward/2 back) to create attraction
d.all of the above
main thing im confused with is,where do i show disinterest,and where do i show flat out i wanna get with her
Do i?
a.isolate her use kino etc and go for the kill
b.subtley go for her
c.show disinterest (one step forward/2 back) to create attraction
d.all of the above
main thing im confused with is,where do i show disinterest,and where do i show flat out i wanna get with her
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.