Well ive found out the girl i like used to like me 2 months back i found out in a truth or dare game,and i liked her then is what is disapointing,alot has happened between then and now with us,but im not in the friends zone,she even said "we are not innocent friends"...... what can i do to try get the attraction back?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Oh......
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Docs
Banned
Damn, write with some sense.
I'm going to try and scratch here....did you bang her...or date her, or what?
And anyways...what the hell, create some attraction again, it's possible.
I'm going to try and scratch here....did you bang her...or date her, or what?
And anyways...what the hell, create some attraction again, it's possible.
we have never kissed,but we hug she trys hit me in the balls,alot of kino mostly when she is drunk but,my ex is her best friend and she has told me before she wouldnt kiss me cause of her,although she would kiss me.
we always muck around and stuff general kino,all the ground work is done with her,how do i go about creating attraction again? do i do what i did back when she did like me? or... i actually think deep inside she does feel something for me,but trys to avoid it cause of my ex,any idea?s ... i wish she bloody told me she liked me 2 months ago
thanks for the reply
we always muck around and stuff general kino,all the ground work is done with her,how do i go about creating attraction again? do i do what i did back when she did like me? or... i actually think deep inside she does feel something for me,but trys to avoid it cause of my ex,any idea?s ... i wish she bloody told me she liked me 2 months ago
thanks for the reply
Docs
Banned
You can crack the 'your ex is my best friend'
Get her really attracted/interested and kiss her. No questions asked. You might have to re-assure her that you are interested in you, and dismiss the 'ex....' stuff. That's probably the best way.
Get her really attracted/interested and kiss her. No questions asked. You might have to re-assure her that you are interested in you, and dismiss the 'ex....' stuff. That's probably the best way.
ohh ok thanks for the replys,she has slept at my house the last 2 nights but my ex was with her,its weird i can feel like theres something with this chick and me,they are coming over thursday night for a party (its my exes bday),and a few others will be there.. what im not sure about is. how exactly to act? to i show interest? or act de-tatched but flirty or go for the kill?,so much conflicting advice,what is best for this situation where i hafto tread carefully
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Ace: Why are we still talking? Go get her.
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Ace: I try, I try...
Ye yeah: *runs off to get the girl*
Ye yeah: Yeah
Ace: Why are we still talking? Go get her.
Ye yeah: Oh right, duh. Why didn't I think of that? You are the greatest, Ace!
Ace: I try, I try...
Ye yeah: *runs off to get the girl*
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so just go and talk to both of them, and just be charming and game both at the same time. who cares, as long as your friend gets the most attention.
thanks for the advice fella's.. i know i sound re-petitive or whatever,but ive read the dj bible done countless searches,but the advice/bible conflicts itself,i'll put this simple lol........
Do i?
a.isolate her use kino etc and go for the kill
b.subtley go for her
c.show disinterest (one step forward/2 back) to create attraction
d.all of the above
main thing im confused with is,where do i show disinterest,and where do i show flat out i wanna get with her
Do i?
a.isolate her use kino etc and go for the kill
b.subtley go for her
c.show disinterest (one step forward/2 back) to create attraction
d.all of the above
main thing im confused with is,where do i show disinterest,and where do i show flat out i wanna get with her
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.