Well ive found out the girl i like used to like me 2 months back i found out in a truth or dare game,and i liked her then is what is disapointing,alot has happened between then and now with us,but im not in the friends zone,she even said "we are not innocent friends"...... what can i do to try get the attraction back?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Damn, write with some sense.
I'm going to try and scratch here....did you bang her...or date her, or what?
And anyways...what the hell, create some attraction again, it's possible.
I'm going to try and scratch here....did you bang her...or date her, or what?
And anyways...what the hell, create some attraction again, it's possible.
we have never kissed,but we hug she trys hit me in the balls,alot of kino mostly when she is drunk but,my ex is her best friend and she has told me before she wouldnt kiss me cause of her,although she would kiss me.
we always muck around and stuff general kino,all the ground work is done with her,how do i go about creating attraction again? do i do what i did back when she did like me? or... i actually think deep inside she does feel something for me,but trys to avoid it cause of my ex,any idea?s ... i wish she bloody told me she liked me 2 months ago
thanks for the reply
we always muck around and stuff general kino,all the ground work is done with her,how do i go about creating attraction again? do i do what i did back when she did like me? or... i actually think deep inside she does feel something for me,but trys to avoid it cause of my ex,any idea?s ... i wish she bloody told me she liked me 2 months ago
thanks for the reply
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You can crack the 'your ex is my best friend'
Get her really attracted/interested and kiss her. No questions asked. You might have to re-assure her that you are interested in you, and dismiss the 'ex....' stuff. That's probably the best way.
Get her really attracted/interested and kiss her. No questions asked. You might have to re-assure her that you are interested in you, and dismiss the 'ex....' stuff. That's probably the best way.
ohh ok thanks for the replys,she has slept at my house the last 2 nights but my ex was with her,its weird i can feel like theres something with this chick and me,they are coming over thursday night for a party (its my exes bday),and a few others will be there.. what im not sure about is. how exactly to act? to i show interest? or act de-tatched but flirty or go for the kill?,so much conflicting advice,what is best for this situation where i hafto tread carefully
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Ye yeah: Yeah
Ace: Why are we still talking? Go get her.
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Ace: I try, I try...
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so just go and talk to both of them, and just be charming and game both at the same time. who cares, as long as your friend gets the most attention.
thanks for the advice fella's.. i know i sound re-petitive or whatever,but ive read the dj bible done countless searches,but the advice/bible conflicts itself,i'll put this simple lol........
Do i?
a.isolate her use kino etc and go for the kill
b.subtley go for her
c.show disinterest (one step forward/2 back) to create attraction
d.all of the above
main thing im confused with is,where do i show disinterest,and where do i show flat out i wanna get with her
Do i?
a.isolate her use kino etc and go for the kill
b.subtley go for her
c.show disinterest (one step forward/2 back) to create attraction
d.all of the above
main thing im confused with is,where do i show disinterest,and where do i show flat out i wanna get with her
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.