"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Oh great, now the femynists want sexual crimes ... in the metaverse ... prosecuted
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I don't think he cares. He is likely an MGTOW type of guy who enjoys the convenience and ease of just seeing escorts and couldn't be bothered with some sub-par looking chick who might want him. With him, it's 'might' be nice if he could get one like that, but it's not necessary. These days those things can be overrated because of hoeinflation.
Fortune_favors_the_bold
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For what I recall he (no offence to op) is old and short which means that nowadays jacking off is a much better option than getting naked any woman from the group available to him.
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He's visiting escorts though, at least based on his posts. He's not just fapping (ie assuming that he is, but for the record, he has never posted anywhere that he faps from my recollection).
CornbreadFed
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It is just easier to doom post than put in the necessary work
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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It has always been difficult to anything decent in "any woman from the group available to him".
OK, I could go after single mommies.
MatureDJ
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So the 30 seconds it takes to post really takes away from "putting in the necessary work"?
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Yes, I don't want a fat chick - is that so much to ask?
Fortune_favors_the_bold
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If the options available to you generally suck or sucks compared to the work and stress you need to endure to get them, I totally agree with you not to close the transaction.It has always been difficult to anything decent in "any woman from the group available to him".
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
