"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good idea. Look forward to hearing some FRs in the future.
 

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dude give us more videos of you sarging.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by suikeisuru
I think he has a nice voice.
Gay ass comment :D :D
 

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Whyshy, this is my online audio journal, I ask you as an adult to please not spam my thread. Thank you.

Sincerely
Smooth Player 056
 

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u dont need to do signing and signing in lol, this puts a reality to it tho, just seeing in text makes everyones reports feel like fiction storybooks.

I believe only the serious people will do the audio stuff, and not stupid trolls ( and im pretty sure you could tell if a troll made a fake ass report) so everyone should get this on.

good luck. :cool:
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
u dont need to do signing and signing in lol, this puts a reality to it tho, just seeing in text makes everyones reports feel like fiction storybooks.

I believe only the serious people will do the audio stuff, and not stupid trolls ( and im pretty sure you could tell if a troll made a fake ass report) so everyone should get this on.

good luck. :cool:
Thanks man....I appreciate the encouragment. Tommorow is School for me and I plan to do a few approaches and secretly record them with my brand new audio recorder and hidden microphone....Ill post them tommorow when I get home from school.
 

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How much would a hidden audio recorder cost? And, how hard is it to get the files into computer format?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Inc. ©
How much would a hidden audio recorder cost? And, how hard is it to get the files into computer format?
Mine cost $249, it is a top of the line Olympus recorder....plus I got a microphone to clip onto the top of my shirt collar...$29.99.

Its not hard at all to get the files onto the computer format. All you do is install the CD it comes with and then connect the cord from the recorder to the UPC port...then click "transfer"...its really easy.

Once you have the files on your computer you jusnt need to find a free host online.

Sincerely
Smooth Player 056
 

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Cool I want to hear you in action... Get this started
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Mine cost $249, it is a top of the line Olympus recorder....plus I got a microphone to clip onto the top of my shirt collar...$29.99.
280$!!!!!!
u must have a good job or rich parents!
lol any afforable ones out there? like maybe 100$ for everything?
 

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Originally posted by Brian20o2
280$!!!!!!
u must have a good job or rich parents!
lol any afforable ones out there? like maybe 100$ for everything?
Yeah, record it in the library on the computer. Just tell the girl that you need her to talk into the microphone. :crackup: :crackup:


Nonetheless, I look forward to hearing you in action, smooth.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good idea. Good clarity in your voice. Good annunciation. Yeah just make sure u check the laws in ur state cuz it can be illegal to record ppl that don;t know it. Keep it up
 

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Today I came to school prepared with my recorder and everything......dumbass me doesnt know WE HAVE NO SCHOOL...LOL. ...........anywayZ ill DEFINETLY be posting audio reports tommorow no later than 5:00pm...be expecting cool things.

By the way....someone said something about rich parents...I WISH....they dont buy me s h i t. I work at mervyns and it was half of my paycheck to buy it. I think its worth it though...It will help my game tremendously.

REMEMBER 5:00 My audio field reports will be posted tommorow.;)


Sincerely
Smooth Player 056
 

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hey Smooth, awesome idea...props for originality...

actually, i think this is great, because everyone can do this here, and it's not easily fakeable, because you can very easily tell if someone is faking audio for an approach unless they are incredibly natural actors (or pro-radio broadcasters for that matter)...and the only way I can think that you could possibly fake it is by cropping together various audio recording...but still that would be nearly impossible to make it sound believable...

you got me wanting to try it too ...and i think this should set a precedent for getting people to put their money where their mouth is, so to speak... i guess though, as long as they do approaches ... so simple too, just toss the recorder in your pocket and head out...

...although, the only thing maybe getting over the fact that you do have a recorder in your pocket...in other words, it's not as much of a problem with the girl knowing because she won't know, but it's more of a problem with yourself being able to forget about it and be perfectly natural/comfortable as if it wasn't there

i think that may be your biggest obstacle actually, but good luck man! this thread will rock

btw, when you recorded that clip, was it in your pocket? if so, that's really good quality

edit: still in thought about the "fakeability" of this...and i just don't think it's possible ...because even pics are editable but audio editing is a lot tougher and an esoteric skill to most...even pigeon man and black_italian can fake photos, so it's pretty easy, audio/video, unless you're a freaking guru and have lots of money and time to spend, you won't be able to fake it authentically ... again, great idea dude!

edit#2: eh, i'm not a great example b/c my recorder was also around $250 (though also an mp3 plyr and radio, etc)...still, you can get pocket-sized audio recorders for very cheap

for you skeptical guys...check out the new samsung yep yp-mt6

about $69 for a 512mb, and $60 for a 256mb ...it's very similar to my rio mp3 plyr...runs on a AA battery with a life of ~48hrs...my rio goes for 40hrs

and you can record voice, listen to radio, mp3, etc features, and also use it as a flash drive.

http://reviews.cnet.com/Samsung_YEPP_YP_MT6Z__1GB_/4505-6490_7-31283823.html?tag=tab

well worth $70 for a 512, considering i bought my 512mb rio last december for $250.

there's tons more, just check out cnet, and search for "voice recorder"
 
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Wow...yet another delay. I sarged 3 girls today at school.....went to my last class happy, THEN *beep* *beep* *beep* the f-ing timer went off on the audio recorder.....I got it confiscated, I get it back tommorow.

I know some of you guys really wanted to hear this today...im sorry, but I PROMISE it may be up tommorow.

Smooth Player 056
 
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I have a samsung ympt6. i may try this =P
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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