Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think he has a nice voice.Originally posted by whyshy
Gay ass voice.:crackup: :crackup:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thanks man....I appreciate the encouragment. Tommorow is School for me and I plan to do a few approaches and secretly record them with my brand new audio recorder and hidden microphone....Ill post them tommorow when I get home from school.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
u dont need to do signing and signing in lol, this puts a reality to it tho, just seeing in text makes everyones reports feel like fiction storybooks.
I believe only the serious people will do the audio stuff, and not stupid trolls ( and im pretty sure you could tell if a troll made a fake ass report) so everyone should get this on.
good luck.![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mine cost $249, it is a top of the line Olympus recorder....plus I got a microphone to clip onto the top of my shirt collar...$29.99.Originally posted by Inc. ©
How much would a hidden audio recorder cost? And, how hard is it to get the files into computer format?
280$!!!!!!Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Mine cost $249, it is a top of the line Olympus recorder....plus I got a microphone to clip onto the top of my shirt collar...$29.99.
Yeah, record it in the library on the computer. Just tell the girl that you need her to talk into the microphone. :crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by Brian20o2
280$!!!!!!
u must have a good job or rich parents!
lol any afforable ones out there? like maybe 100$ for everything?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.